Live and love from a clear vision of what you want, THEN look at the “problems” ONLY as to how they might get in the way of what you really want.
Wouldn't it be easier, more enjoyable and so much less draining to focus on SOLUTIONS rather than getting "stuck in the muck" or dissecting dramas?
Can you imagine the difference in your relationship and day to day life if you were focused as allies aiming for awesome rather than adversaries at odds over every little thing?
When one beloved blames, the other beloved defends. It’s relationship math. Then you’re on a slippery slope that can easily turn a misunderstanding or bad day into a messy fight with deep and lasting impact.
ENOUGH “problem pathologizing”. Enjoy a revitalizing vacation that also helps you align and focus on what you want and stops you from wasting your finite energy on arguing about everything you DON’T want. The problems will get handled. Just from a different perspective - as obstacles to the actual goal, not the problems being the focus themselves.
Blaming, shaming, complaining and criticizing
Your communication is adversarial and pulls you apart
Fear + frustration are the norm - the fights are “dirty”
Not hot for each other - the sex is “clean” or rare
In for your own happiness - winning is for one
Feeling unsafe, unaccepted or unappreciated
Not trusting each other
Sad / hopeless over the state of your relationship
Others notice the quality of your love - your relationship is a source of embarrassment. (“That” couple)
Don’t like each other or your life very much
Problem solving is a natural byproduct of your efforts
Your communication brings you together as allies
The fights are “clean”
You’re hot for each other and the sex is “dirty”
You prioritize BOTH. It’s win-win or no deal
You express yourself fully and feel fully accepted
You feel seen, heard, appreciated and cared about
You trust each other
Others notice the quality of your love - your relationship is a source of inspiration. (“It” couple)
You like each other and your life
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Break the habit of blaming, shaming or complaining. Lean into Loving Better by aiming for awesome today. Create YOUR relationship vision then turn your lofty goals into everyday realities.
Couples who are tired of the negativity and are ready to invest in intimacy by creating a vision.
Couples in dire conflict. See the Venting for Victory or Rift Residue Removal personalized coaching program.
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Any individual or couple that wants to create an inspiring shared vision to align their efforts around and release the human, yet unhealthy, addiction to blaming, complaining or focusing on fixing.
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Absolutely. Aim for awesome early and often is our motto!
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