Watch my 4-minute invitation on creating your personalized For Better Love Marriage Map
Live and love from a clear vision of what you want, THEN look at the “problems” ONLY as to how they might get in the way of what you really want.
Wouldn't it be easier, more enjoyable and so much less draining to focus on SOLUTIONS rather than getting "stuck in the muck" or dissecting dramas?
Can you imagine the difference in your relationship and day to day life if you were focused as allies aiming for awesome rather than adversaries at odds over every little thing?
When one beloved blames, the other beloved defends. It’s relationship math. Then you’re on a slippery slope that can easily turn a misunderstanding or bad day into a messy fight with deep and lasting impact.
ENOUGH "problem pathologizing". Embark on a guided adventure that will keep you focused on what you want and stop you from wasting your finite energy on arguing about everything you DON’T want. The problems will get handled. Just from a different perspective - as obstacles to the actual goal, not the problems being the focus themselves.
Blaming, shaming, complaining and criticizing
Your communication is adversarial and pulls you apart
Fear + frustration are the norm - the fights are “dirty”
Not hot for each other - the sex is “clean” or rare
In for your own happiness - winning is for one
Feeling unsafe, unaccepted or unappreciated
Not trusting each other
Sad / hopeless over the state of your relationship
Others notice the quality of your love - your relationship is a source of embarrassment. (“That” couple)
Don’t like each other or your life very much
Problem solving is a natural byproduct of your efforts
Your communication brings you together as allies
The fights are “clean”
You’re hot for each other and the sex is “dirty”
You prioritize BOTH. It’s win-win or no deal
You express yourself fully and feel fully accepted
You feel seen, heard, appreciated and cared about
You trust each other
Others notice the quality of your love - your relationship is a source of inspiration. (“It” couple)
You like each other and your life
Like each other/like your life
Problem solving/fights clean
Hot for each other/sexy dirty
Care for each other
See & accept/embrace each other
Trust each other
For others/what it looks like "IT Couple"
Don't like each other/don't like your life
Fears, frustrations / dirty fights
Not hot for each other / (sex clean)
Not caring about each other's happiness
Not feeling safe / accepted / appreciated
Not trusting each other
Identify your ideal relationship, see where your ideals align, then build a map, writing meaningful goals and relationship mantra.
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Break the habit of blaming, shaming or complaining. Lean into Loving Better by aiming for awesome today. Create YOUR relationship vision then turn your lofty goals into everyday realities.
Get started to create your own marriage map. Whether it's Do It Yourself, in a Course, a Course Plus, or you go for it with the Full Limo Ride, find the path that works best for you and your beloved today.
Go DIY style to create your individual and shared vision, mantra and goals using the PLAYbook and the Masterclass as your guide. Let us know how it goes.
Take the 4-week course for a step-by-step guided journey through creating your vision, mantra and goals with you doing the merging and editing on your own.
Join the 4-week course for a step-by-step guided journey PLUS get your vision, mantra and goals merged / edited by Gaby along with your own relationship wiki.
Get in on 4 guided sessions, unlimited texts and all the editing done for you. PLUS a Vision Video, FightsCleanSexDirty Tool Kit, magnet, screensaver and more.
Access awesome intimacy and have your vision, goals and mantra created by the end of this 3 night, 2.5 day personalized retreat with luxe lodging and magnificent meals.
You've got it covered to create your vision, mantra and goals using the PLAYbook and the Masterclass as your guide. Let us know how it goes.
Join the 4 wk course for a step-by-step guided journey through creating your vision, mantra and goals with you doing the merging and editing on your own.
Join the 4 wk course for a step-by-step guided journey PLUS get your vision, mantra and goals merged / edited by Gaby along with your own relationship wiki.
4 personalized sessions, unlimited texts and Gaby does the merging for you. PLUS get a vision video, a Fights Clean, Sex Dirty Tool Kit, magnets, screensaver.
Couples who are tired of the negativity and are ready to invest in intimacy by creating a vision.
Couples in dire conflict. See the Venting for Victory or Rift Residue Removal personalized coaching program.
You can! Just skip steps 2-4. You can even use your vision to call your beloved in.
Absolutely! Good for you for being intentional about your intimacy.
Just the FREE PLAYbook and Masterclass. Download the PLAYbook or print out the printable version. Watch the 45 minute masterclass on your computer, pad or phone.
If you’re a go getter and money is a barrier, go DIY. That’s what it’s there for. Easy access!
If you’re interested in more detailed guidance and you do well with self paced courses, go for the Course.
If you’re interested in a Marriage Map, but are a bit overwhelmed by the task of merging your visions, condensing it into a memorable Marriage Mantra and fleshing out specific goals , then go for the Course Plus and Gaby will do the merging and edits for you.
If you prefer the more personalized coaching approach, skip the class and get high end support, four sessions, plus some fun bells and whistles then go with The Full Limo Ride version where Gaby will guide you through the process step by step as well as do the merging and wordsmithing for you/with you.
DIY is FREE! Still with our Full Limo Ride we do offer payment plans. See purchase pages for options.
This version is FREE so no worries there. Still, with our courses and coaching programs, everything is 100% money back guarantee.
Just put your name and email address HERE and then we’ll send you right away the email with the link to download the PLAYbook and watch the Masterclass.”
Any individual or couple that wants to create an inspiring shared vision to align their efforts around and release the human, yet unhealthy, addiction to blaming, complaining or focusing on fixing.
YES! Start this journey on your own. Use the clarity to call in your person (and to quickly weed out what you DON'T want.)
Absolutely. Aim for awesome early and often is our motto!
A computer, tablet or phone to watch the videos, fill in your answers.
Personalized support is most effective as you're held throughout the process and can avoid any conflicts that might emerge when trying to merge your individual visions and goals, still cost can be a hurdle. Sign up for the most support you can afford. Still not sure, set up a complimentary consult call with Gaby today.
Any courses or coaching program over $500 can be broken into payments. Details are provided on the purchase page.
You can watch the replays if you can't attend, still, we stand by our offerings and your satisfaction. We offer a 100% money back guarantee. Not once has someone asked for a refund!
You’ll get access to the 4 wk course for a step-by-step guided journey PLUS you’ll get your vision, mantra and goals merged / edited by Gaby along with your own relationship wiki.
What makes the Course Plus option special is that you’ll get your vision, mantra and goals merged / edited by Gaby personally. Sometimes merging your visions or making edits to condense something can become unintentionally adversarial. Or often someone doesn’t feel like a strong writer and they want a little support. The wordsmithing of your individual visions into one and the long one into a short one is one of Gaby’s favorite things to do and couples love what she creates. Plus our team will also build your own relationship wiki so all your efforts will be organized in one place.
Yes you can take this option if you’re single. When there is only one person, there is no merging, but Gaby can still take your full vision and help you condense it into something you can memorize and say regularly as well as help you turn your vision into specific goals. ! Start this journey on your own. Use the clarity to call in your person (and to quickly weed out what you DON’T want.) I will then help you merge those visions, mantra & goals.
Absolutely. Aim for awesome early and often is our motto! Bravo for investing in intimacy and front loading your marriage to enjoy play, peace and passion for years to come.
A computer, tablet or phone to watch the videos, fill in your answers. You’ll need to send your drafts to me for me to edit. You can do that via our system or simply by emailing your PLAYbook to Gaby.
Personalized support is most effective as you’re held throughout the process and can avoid any conflicts that might emerge when trying to merge your individual visions and goals, still cost can be a hurdle for some. Sign up for the most support you can afford. Still not sure, set up a complimentary consult call with Gaby today.
Any courses or coaching program over $500 can be broken into payments. Details are provided on the purchase page. Usually broken into 2-3 payments with a small charge for the additional billing.
You can watch the replays if you can’t attend, still, we stand by our offerings and your satisfaction. We offer a 100% money back guarantee. NOTE: Not once has someone asked for a refund!
With the Full Limo Ride, you get the best of the best of everything on this program. You’ll get 4 personalized coaching sessions with Gaby, access to text her at any time and she does the merging and condensing for/with you. PLUS extras like a personal vision video created for you, a Fights Clean, Sex Dirty Tool Kit filled with fabulous fun, personalized magnets of your vision as well as screensavers of your vision and goals.
Show up. Lean in. Focus on what you want, (not what you don’t want). Have fun.
Yes, this program qualifies to break payment up into two months, half to start, half before we finish, with a small processing fee.
If you can’t make a session, Gaby can usually reschedule if you have notified her in advance. Still, For Better Love offers a 100% money back guarantee. NOTE: Not once has someone asked for a refund!
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Check out our Venting for Victory program to get the uglies out (and translate them into clear, feelings, needs and ideas for how to move forward)
If you just need to feel heard, validated and empathized with, then the Rift Residue Removal program might be right up your alley.